“Yes, I am successful in life and so people follow me, take my advice, appreciate my works, and try to be my friends.” They try to please me and make long lasting relations with me. They assure me of any help in my bad times. And they count their name as my well-wishers. My attitude is nice and so people stick around me.
Now look down! Yes! Towards Failure!
“But, before this successful life, I was a complete failure. I remember how people would use to avoid me. My nice personality and well manners won’t please them. They won’t ask for my advice on anything. They feel unlucky to be my friend. They never invited me to parties. I was a total shame in society.”
Are you also a victim of such situations? Do you feel sick for people’s changing attitudes? If so, read on, and get a wonderful pack of advice on ‘how to maintain your cool in every situation?’
We are successful by our luck, chance, opportunities, hard work, and situations. And we are a failure by our mistakes, hopeless nature, demotivation, lack of guidance, no opportunities, procrastinations, unanalysed risks and laziness.
Our life brings us both- an awarded success and degraded failure. It is up to us how we balance both. If success smiles, then smile back. If failures laugh, then laugh along. Don’t take too much stress for anything. Everything is a part of life. And not a part of you. Success or failure can’t define you. There are a lot of things that should be important for you and which should make you happy and proud. Let me briefly define such things to you.
Hope for reasons
Be hopeful because you have bountiful friends, supporting families, understanding partners, amazing opportunities, sound health, and good memories. Apart from this, follow the best things in your life.
- Eat well.
- Sleep sound.
- Drink merrily.
- Study good books.
- Keep learning.
- Stay hydrated. Stay fit.
- Be positive & creative.
- Never stop dreaming.
- Love yourself.
- Travel around.
- Stay authentic.
This is the right way to style your life. This is the method to live strong. Adopt the best of living techniques and see your attitude saying Howdy! to everyone. ‘To the smiling success and to the laughing failure.’